She Didn't Need a Bigger Plan, She Needed a Smaller One

A client's journey through burnout, one small step at a time

She came to coaching feeling stretched impossibly thin, running her business on caffeine and willpower while quietly wondering if starting it had been a mistake. Every hour outside of "feeding the business" felt like a hole in an already leaking bucket. Her clients needed her, her partner was navigating health struggles, and rest felt like a luxury she didn't have room for. At first, she pushed back on the idea of slowing down at all; her busyness felt necessary, even protective.

Initially, while she wanted help, she came in with a huge wall built up as she'd tried big overhauls before, things like committing to the gym five days a week, changes that looked good on paper but never lasted more than a few weeks before life crowded them back out. Together, we talked about how a real shift usually isn't built from one huge leap; it's built from small, sustainable steps that can actually survive a busy, unpredictable life. So rather than trying to overhaul her whole schedule, we started with two small, unhurried moments in her day, morning and evening bookends she could hold onto no matter how chaotic things got. 

And while resistant at first, she did commit to time in the morning, before touching her phone, she'd step outside for a few quiet minutes, feet in the grass when the weather allowed. In the evening, she brewed a simple cup of chamomile tea and gave herself fifteen unhurried minutes with a fiction book, no fixing, no optimizing, just something quietly hers. 

The mornings were hard at first; five minutes felt like an eternity when her mind raced, thinking about how much there was to do. She stuck with it anyway, and within a few weeks, she noticed a real shift in her energy, something she hadn't expected from something so small. Over time, five minutes outside became ten. The evening tea ritual became something she looked forward to rather than one more thing to squeeze in. She reported even sleeping better, which was a bonus. Eventually, she found the clarity to let go of a few clients who'd quietly been draining far more than they gave.

Over time, with this win, we were able to add other shifts. We also brought in a flower essence to support her sense of boundaries, alongside regular check-ins where she could reflect without judgment and start to see her own patterns more clearly.

Sometimes the biggest shift doesn't come from doing more; it comes from finally giving yourself permission to stand still for ten minutes with your feet in the grass. Watching her reclaim that felt like exactly the kind of work I love being part of.

If this sounds like where you are right now, I'd love to talk.

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